More smile, less tear
When you plan your wedding, the hardest part is you can not let all the people on your wedding party to be happy all the time! But no other way? The answer is "No". If we do good communication, listening with your heart to others and the way you express our opinions with warm and loving way. I think we can make our wedding party more smile and less tear.
YesMyBride list some helpful tips to deal with the special people.
Eventful Mothers
Our mothers will be eventful enough if they want to control the party, even a very small part as they want to have control over how their money is spent. A mother’s role in the wedding can affect things such as finances, emotions and cultural issues.
Our mothers will be eventful enough if they want to control the party, even a very small part as they want to have control over how their money is spent. A mother’s role in the wedding can affect things such as finances, emotions and cultural issues.
If your mother needs tasks to do; give her the job of picking out the flowers or tablecloths - that is if you don’t care much about it. Picking your battles is important.
In-laws-to-be
A wedding means a son turn his allegiance from his mother to his wife. So some mothers may not be comfortable with this.
So a good idea is including your in-laws-to-be into your wedding planning. If you can accommodate them and at least some of their demands, it might make your stock rise with them. If you come to some bumps in the road, as you almost certainly will, let your fiancé do the talking. He knows how to talk to his family best.
Wedding Bridesmaids
If a bridesmaid is behaving with a chip on the shoulder or acting as if she is better than this, there might be more that meets the eye.
If you come across this situation, stop and analyze yourself. Have you been out of control, rude or demanding? Sometimes we get a bit carried away during the wedding planning process. If so, check yourself, then have a chat with your ladies and sort it out before the big day. It also might help if you appoint a go-to-gal among your bridesmaids. She can be a neutral mediator and relaying information and organizing parties will go smoother.
